Yo Ced, Man I need your help I fell in love with a woman a few years back. She has me really shuck up. The problem is I work on the West Coast, but we lived on the East Coast and I’m gone for months at a time. When I am away she goes out with other guys. It never turns into anything and she comes back to me. I’m lost because I really love her. I don’t know what to do, should I find a new local job or give up on her.
Do you think your traveling is causing this issue between the two of you? Don’t be no fool and start thinking it’s that’s simple of a fix. There is obviously something deeper that is causing her to stray and this needs to be the focus.
It’s no doubt that you care deeply for this woman, I can since that in your e-mail. However, sacrificing ones career can start you on a down hill-slippery-slope. Before you make a decision this major you need to be fully aware of your motivation, the very thing that gives reason for your action. You don’t want to ever bring resentment into the relationship.
I appreciate you sharing with us, but it’s time you and her start doing some major sharing with one another. It’s time for some real honest talk, emphasis on the honest. She needs to open up, about why she is choosing to date other men. I’m not going to lie to you, it’s going to be a tough conversation to have. But, it is necessary for the survival of this relationship. It will also, give you a peace of mind and allow you to make the right decision.
I pray that God’s will be done in your situation Dave. Hit me back and tell how the talk goes…..Peace Brutha!!!