I love the name and the website is great……I am 22 years old in my junior year of college and for the past year I have been going out with a famous singer, the embarrassing part is he is married with kids. To make matters worst I’ve recently found out I was pregnant and he wants me to get a abortion. Since I’ve told him I was pregnant we don’t talk or see each other anymore. I am in love with this man and feel mess up. I was raised in a Christian house and I knew better to get involved with a married man. Do I have the abortion and move on? Do I have the child and be a single parent? What do I do?
Geeesh! This is heavy….but let’s just jump into and get the obvious out the way! What in the world were you thinking? I guess, the glare of the fame had you stuck on the dumb-dumb. Real talk….this is not a easy task you have taken on for yourself. The greatest advice I got is to seek God. You said, you was raised in a Christian home — I hope that means you have a relationship with God, because if you ever needed him before you sure do need him now. Let him guide you to make the right decision and let him heal your heart.
About this abortion thing….In my opinion it would be a temporary solution. Like when you decided to get involved with a married man, that was a temporary solution to whatever need you had at that time in your life and we see where that got you. I have heard from other females, that abortion haunts you.
I know you feel alone and it feels like you’re going to drown in this confusion — but it gets better. I hope you have a support network of family and friends. Lean on them through all of this. I also want to give you Judge Mablean information, she has a foundation that helps people in your situation. She has counselors and legal people to help you. Praying for you sis, smile ok!
P.S. Who is the babydaddy? (I know I ain’t the only one wondering who is)
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